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Many men have reported post-abortion problems such as feelings of grief, helplessness and guilt; sexual dysfunction; substance abuse; self-hatred; fear of relationships; risk-taking and suicidal behavior; depression; greater tendencies toward becoming angry and violent; and a sense of lost manhood.(2) When either women or men carry the emotional baggage of an unresolved abortion into a subsequent relationship, it can cause trouble in subtle and even dramatic ways.
This is especially a problem when they keep the abortion a secret from their spouses, who are then unable to understand their emotional cycles.
The distortions in behavior that result when spouses keep secrets from each other can be devastating to a marriage.
Many relationships between couples come apart shortly after an abortion.
Others survive only because the partners are still bound together by grief.
Abortion, for both women and men, is associated with self-hatred, self-punishing behavior, and an increased tendency to act out anger and rage toward others.
A woman who is self-destructive or suicidal, but afraid to deliberately harm herself, may be more likely to become involved with a violent man.
At the same time, there is often tremendous pressure in the relationship to conceal one’s true feelings of grief or guilt.
This can especially be a problem for men, who are often taught to hide their emotions.
A violent relationship may allow her both to express her own rage and to experience what she unconsciously feels is the “punishment I deserve.” Because of self-hatred and low self-esteem, she may remain in the relationship because she thinks she doesn’t deserve anything better.
Certainly, there are many other causes of domestic violence.
She's slept with eight men - four were her boyfriends and two were guys she was "just dating." They seemed interested but faded away after sex.
The other two were drunken one-night stands during college, before she knew better - or more accurately, when she learned better.
For some women, abortion is the result of an outright threat of abandonment if the woman won’t “do the right thing” and abort.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating