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‘It was still very niche,’ says Rebecca Oatley, whose company, Cherish, worked on marketing some of those early sites in the UK.
‘Most people either had no idea what internet dating was, or they thought it was for geeks and losers who were light on social skills.’ The matchmaking machinery was pretty unsophisticated at this stage.
They were tech-aware and working hard and had less time. With the big brand names, like Match, the mission was love.
It made sense.’ Of course, early adopters weren’t all socially inept geeks (a demographic, by the way, that has had a radical rebrand in the last 20 years, pretty much inheriting the earth and everything on it). Hope, and curiosity, springs eternal – maybe the web could cast the net wide enough to find The One. But sites like Nerve in New York offered a different kind of classified, advertising all kinds of casual and filthy sex: this was a prototype of ‘the hook-up’.
Guardian Soulmates didn’t have a ‘secret sauce’, but it brought together people who read the same newspaper. ‘What people wanted was demographic, not psychographic assistance,’ says Thombre.
There was no way that Match and e Harmony, the frumpy juggernauts of internet dating, could satisfy the myriad tribes of humanity. JDate brought together Jewish singles, with profiles often written by their mothers. Farmers, dog lovers, herpes sufferers, fitness freaks – you name it, there was a dating site dedicated to it. But let’s be honest, for Generation X it was a case of needs must.
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‘And search for people based on a few basic parameters.’ If you really had a grasp of this stuff, meeting people involved a rendezvous in a wine bar with an identifying item of clothing or a red rose in a lapel.
And, as barely anyone had the technical savvy to upload a photo to the internet, there was the inevitable nail-biting wait to see if the date was a hottie or notty – and the nuisance of having to make polite conversation if they were the latter.
‘In the US there was a far greater acceptance,’ says Oatley.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating