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I also had hundreds of papers to grade, articles to file for magazines and newspapers, books to research and write. “He was so boring,” I told Dana, my former college roommate, on the phone after a nice date with a nice man who was nice looking.

I had to give speeches and go to conferences and meetings. “I think he went through his entire day minute by minute in chronological order.” “Oh, honey,” Dana said. You just forgot.” There were men I met in airports, on airplanes or in shared cabs when I traveled for work. Not that I am all that flirty, but I answer them, even if I know the question about where are the sundried tomatoes is just a ruse.

The boys didn’t need any more surprises from a parent.

I was predictable; I didn’t bring home any threats to their homeland security. It was easier to go to bed early, wake up early and get on with my day.

The following excerpt is a shortened version of Weldon’s chapter on the challenges of dating as a single, midlife parent, titled simply: Raising the boys alone without financial assistance or physical reprieve kept me occupied, if not impatient. “How often are your boys away for the whole weekend? “Never.” I noticed a perceptible shift in his demeanor. I liked being able to relinquish control, even if just in the restaurant ordering wine.

There was the Italian accountant with the creaseless pants who asked early on our first date if I had my marriage annulled.

My right to choose who to date/not to date is absolute, regardless of anyone’s opinions.

, author and Northwestern University journalism professor Michele Weldon explores all the nuances and metaphors of that phrase.

A man on a plane sitting in the row behind me and the boys — on our one and only trip to Disney World, because honest to God who in her right mind would go back — asked for my card and if I wanted to go out for a drink once back in Chicago. Still, meeting someone who was worth taking a risk on was nearly impossible.

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